Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: belgium, drinks, ferry, festival, laserquest, rain, storm, work
ell it has been a very long time since I last posted. So long in fact that I can’t even remember when or what my last post was. I will just try and have to guess the developments which have happened in my life. Work has been manic, conferences here there and everywhere, conference submissions, meeting which last at least a good hour longer than they need to, a lot of administrative stuff going on and working on what feels like a gazillion projects. I have my fingers in far too many pies. On the home front, me and Dom are good, I think we have overcome what we needed to, although he got a bit weird and quiet on me last night. We are trying to do one interesting thing together every two weeks on a monday. Last week I took Dom to quasar, when I informed him of this, he looked terribly embarassed that he would need to participate in such an activity. He said it’s what eight year olds do. Anyway I drove there, the place was dead, we waited for the next session to run. Meanwhile the previous contestants were emerging from their time in the quasar room, and out marched a bunch of seven year olds in full kit. Dom looked at me and laughed, he couldnt believe I was taking him to such a thing. Anyway, we went for our induction, all the time Dom looking naturally embarassed as we were the only participants of that scheduled game. By the time we got into the space laser room, we were laughing our heads off, it was amazing, we spent the next twenty minutes running about and falling about in stitches. I was knackered after twenty minutes. We had a great time. Dom is organising the theatre for next monday, I think I may have convinced him to go for a prix fix meal. Woooooooo hooooo. So that should be good.
Over the bank holiday we went to see Doms dad in Guildford, we drove down on Friday (I thankfully had the day off) it took six hours though, I was knackered and we returned on Sunday. His sister was there, texting away. It was also good to see his little niece, the cheeky little madam. The step monster was a nightmare at times, and I think I may have overstepped the nosy mark at one point. Nevermind.
On the way back, me and Dom experienced the weirdest weather storm. The cloud was as black as night, and very large, whilst driving through it I could barely see the road in front of me for the rain. It was so dark, all cars had to put their lights on, it was as if there had been a total eclipse. The rain was falling so hard, that rivers started to emerge on the motor way, and driving through them at sixty scared the buggery out of me. On the bank holiday monday, we went for some drinks, I felt well rough on the Tuesday.
I have booked four tickets to go to a Belgian festival in July, I am very excited, the lineup is amazing. At least 40 top bands, including Radiohead and REM, to mention but a few. We are going via ferry which is free courtesy of my sister. That’s about all I can be arsed writing about for the time being. Post more probably never.
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Filed under: babble | Tags: dom work, dream, jamie oliver, pasta, pitch black, pottery, recipe, run, sauce, spider, tomato
had a really weird dream last night, i remember the remnants of it anyway. I was in a harbour and had to fish these spiders cocoons from somewhere. I was doing fine, and there was one which was just about to breach or pop and I had to quickly fish it out and put it safely out of reach. As I put it down it popped and was no good to me (no idea why) and then all these baby spiders started coming out and i ran. Ming.
Last night I watched pitch black, I have seen that film so many times, but it’s been a while since I last watched it. Dom and I used to watch it when we first got together. He was doing work all night, he has some major deadline after easter and he is trying to get it all finished. He is in career orientated mode, not much company. I cooked a jamie recipe last night, was very nice indeed, it was a basic tomato sauce recipe. It didnt even have that many ingredients but it tasted amazing. Perhaps it tasted amazing because I had been out for a run with Rose and was starving by the time I got back. I fell asleep on the sofa upside down, how very glamarous. Supposed to go to pottery tonight, me and Carol said that we would try and go every two weeks. But I really want to see my lamp base, I guess it can wait until next week.
I am going to cook some hot cross buns tonight, and bring them into work tomorrow, feeling very festive.

Filed under: babble | Tags: american gangster, assasins creed, food, italian, jamie oliver, mussels, pasta, productive, running, sunday lunch, work
ondays, mondays are supposed to be sleepy days, but I was up and rearing to go this morning. Had an eventful weekend, on Friday, Andy came round and we played assassins creed for far too many hours. On sat I went round to Rosies, we watched Wales achieve yet another grand slam…. apparantly. Rosie had a friend visiting, and we all went out for dinner. We went to a nice mediteranean restaurant, I had pasta with mussels and clams, which was delicious. Yum yum. Dom went out, got pissed with Tom and Rick. I think he needs man time. On sunday, Angela and John came round, I wasn’t really in the mood for company, having had an energetic weekend. Well for me anyway. What’s wrong with me, I do two things and I feel like my whole life has been consumed. I guess I don’t like doing things which I haven’t suggested, which isnt really fair on anyone else. So we went out for Sunday lunch, three course mean for eight quid. Bargain. That stuffed me up, so I was in a lethargic mood for the rest of the afternoon. Poor poor me, not. Watched American gangster last night, it was a rubbish version of Goodfellas and Casino. Rubbish, rubbish, rubbish.
Had a very productive day at work today (until i started writing this blog, of course) I managed to put a massive dent in the paper I am trying to write. I have almost got to the point where I can’t write much more until the project develops a little further, or some questions are answered… I have an exhaustive list.
My Jamie Oliver book came today, the italy one, we eat A LOT of pasta, so i thought it would be appropriate to get at least one italian recipe book. Having meat and pasta tonight, yum yum. I also think I am going for a jog tonight, hopefully it will be longer than the last one, I nearly died after a hundred paces. Just talking of food makes me hungry, you would think by the fact that I talk so much about food and I have a distinct lack of excercise that I have a few excessive pounds hovering over my midrift. The truth is I way about nince stone, give or take a pound. I hope it stays that way, however I am all too familiar about the fact that when you hit age 35, you will put on a pound a year unless you do something about it. So, I thought, if I start now, I will be in full swing of some excercise and healthy diet scheme. I still enter a blog at least once a week, so there is hope for me yet!
Whilst in the shower this morning, I don’t know if it was the sound of water hitting the hard surface, but a memory vividly came to mind. I was about eight or nine years old, we had spent the entire day up at the beach in Mrs Brassingtons house. It was an amazing house overlooking the cove, in the huge glass window over looking the beach, lighthouse and sea she had a telescope in the window. She also had a huge greenhouse where she grew all her vegetables, Dad was painting the house at the time, myself and my sister spent the whole day playing about in her vast garden. When my mother came to pick us up, a torrential downpour occured, we rushed for cover in the car and she drove us back in to town. She stopped in the port, outside my grandmothers house as she wanted to pop by. It was still raining, but I and my sister jumped out of the car and ran for cover in rather large square entrance of my uncles warehouse. He used to keep his boat there, one he had been working on for as long as I can remember, there was always saw dust on the floor, and the smell of hot wood which had just been worked on. It was a rather large boat about 25ft or so, so you can imagine how large the warehouse was. It always puzzled me how he would get the boat out, as there was a large slated roof on top of the warehouse which didn’t look like it was going anywhere anytime soon. Anyway the entrance to the warehouse lay about 3ft off the floor and there were no stairs to help you up. The entrance lay about 2ft deep in the thick stone wall, and at the entrance lay a large red wooden door, which would slide backward and forwards when required. The rain was falling hard, and both our hair was dripping wet. It thundered, and I remember thinking about that old trick where you start counting the seconds from when the flash occured to the frightening loud crash. I remembered that you needed to count in thousands – one, one thousand, two one thousand. I think i got up to about nine or ten. The sound of the thunder made me feel so small and insignificant, and I remember turning my awe eyes on to admire this amazing spectical so that I could remember it for the rest of my life.
Filed under: babble | Tags: cervical, cinema, his dark materials, house party, juno, karaoke, LOTR, pottery, pub quiz, screening
oops! It’s been a week since my last confession. I knew this was going to happen! The pressure got too much for me. In which case I have much to report since last weds, on Thursday night, we went to the pub quiz. We were rubbish, a total score of 8 out of 28. It was a girls v boys effort, the lads only managed to score another two points. Then on Friday we took it easy. Sat house party, Sun cinema, last night not very much and tonight pottery I hope. Since last week, I have invented a business, had several hangovers and given each song in my iTunes a rating.

I went home early on Fri, I had accumulated some hours so I took half of the day off. We to a house party at a friends house, her family are a little bonkers and karaoke mad. But not the good stuff. Dom ordered a taxi a little earlier than we were expecting it, so our leaving was an uncordinated flurry. I had just opened another beer too! Like I mentioned, we went to the cinema on Sunday – Juno was the film of choice. It was a really good film, I must say. I had heard in a review that the film was a little diappointing, the reviewee mentioned that he/she thought that the film was unrealistic because the leading lady’s vocabulary was too confident and complex. I thought it was fine, I have seen worse in Dawsons Creek. I liked it very much, I liked the style of the film, the dialogue, the characters and I even shed a tear at the end. I think I have mentioned my soppy uncontrolable crying at the end of a film, which always believe is the sign of a good film.
The worst thing happened yesterday, and it was planned. A cervical screening test, it was barely ten a clock and someone was already poking about my nether regions. I told this to the nurse in fact, i said - ”a little early for this kind of procedure isnt it?” She didn’t look amused. At least I don’t have to take another one for three years. All women have to go through this procedure, men get it so easy! Don’t even get me started on child birth.
Not sure if I mentioned that I completed – his dark materials – trilogy. Was a bit of a rubbish ending, mainly because Dom ruined it and told me that there was a love story in the end. It’s not the same if someone tells you, even if you are expecting it. I was surprised to find so much inuendo in a childrens book, I guess it is quite a complex and timely read. But that doesn’t stop the harry p fans either. I don’t know, a little strange I thought. The second book was definately my favourite, but I think that is always going to be the case. I will let you know if I read any other trilogies. Well I did read the LOTR, the first was just a long walk, however it did have that weird man in the forest which they didn’t include in the film. Mr green fingers or something or other. The second was OK, however the fight went on forever, such a boy thing, and the third was rather poor. So I will go with the first for this trilogy. Anyways I am offski….


